Remember the saying that first impressions count? It is a fact that we humans all judge one another in what we see, although we usually don"t like to admit to it. I hear people say "its what is inside that really counts". That"s true and great, but the truth is that if we aren"t appealed to what we see at first glance, when will we give them the opportunity to us what is inside of them?
Another fact is that there is no man or woman who is truly happy 100% of their appearance ALL the time. Even the so called perfect models have their bad days.
If you are single, you are likely to question your appeal every time you go out on a date or just with friends. And if you question your appearance, your self doubt inevitably hinders your self confidence you portray to others and especially the opposite sex. Your appeal needs to be worked at daily, no matter how handsome or beautiful you are.
We men always think that women admire our muscles and full head of hair. That is a myth. Women in fact are drawn not to muscular bodies but charisma. And charisma will only ever show when we take pride in ourselves of who we are.
I"ve watched time and time again how women immediately assess a man when they enter a room, not of their height, weight, looks or size of their wallet, but the energy that can feel because of his confidence he exhibits from being either a follower or a leader. No woman is ever attracted to a man who she believes cannot take control of situations and protect her.
Hair loss? Is it really the end of the world for your dating prowess? Of course not. Women really don"t care if your head is half covered or even bald! Look at the rankings of some of the "sexiest men" on the planet, they themselves have shaved it all off.
Some men have only half a head of hair and are so self conscious that they try to cover it up by doing the so called comb over from one side to the other to hopefully cover their head with what"s left. This is one of the biggest turn off for a women. They can immediately see that this man is not confident of his appearance. You are actually more attractive by just shaving it all off. You can then just focus on the stuff that really matters to a woman.
Think about the amount of effort you put into tidying up your appearance before a date or an outing. Imagine now the girl preparing herself for the same outing. Who do you think would put in more effort? The answer is obvious. She has probably put in hours of effort to hopefully attract someone she either likes or would like to like. So woman are far more likely to be in a position where she is much more nervous about her appearance than you are. Guys should be pleased to hear this as the burden clearly lies with them and not us.
Having said that though, it is up to us to take the effort to look decent and clean. Women do care about the first impression that you give her. If you have made the effort, more than likely you would have scored a date on your first attempt if she is also single.
In the mean time, Good Luck!
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