Keep a Sense Of Compromise
This life is full of complaints and disputes and if we have got no sense of compromise in us, we shall always be busy in solving one dispute and then another dispute. At times we must be ready to conciliation and if some one comes ahead and wants to become an arbitrator, we must accept him and should see that the dispute is resolved and solved. Reconciliation is the best policy in life. We know that till the disputes stands in our mind, we are disturbed and some time we cannot have sound sleep in the night. We start planning something against the fellow with whom we have got dispute and such planning would not end. Such planning would take us to such an extent that we shall be ready to kill him or we would desire that this man should die. This is very sad and bad because we have come over here to live and we should allow others to live and no one should get punishment more than his offence. The punishment must be proportionate and therefore, it would be better to stop thinking on this side and it would be possible only when we end the dispute and settle the dispute. If the other fellow is not coming forward, we should advance towards him and in most of the cases the other fellow shall be happy that you have come to him for reconciliation and for solving the problem. This rapprochement is always better and the man who had been our enemy is turned our friend and we shall live a peaceful life. If we are peace loving, we should be without disputes because we shall be ignoring small pitfalls on the parts of others. In due course you would be becoming pacifist, and shall be desirous of acting towards universal amity and shall be adopting a policy of general peace. In most of the cases only oral talks would end the dispute and you would not need written agreements. When we can ignore our own family, we must come out of the house and people around us must get benefit of this habit.