Try to complete your tenure
Every one of us who has come in this world has been given a tenure by God and he shall have to complete that tenure and an early departure from this world is not possible. The people commit suicide too are finishing the prescribed tenure, but it is accepted that even in suide cases the tenure had been fixed by God and He had written death through suicide.
The only work with us is that we should try to complete this prescribed tenure in a manner we like. We must take help of our parents, who otherwise, are also liable to take care of us till we are on our feet, but still we should be cautious to take only those steps which may lead us to the right directions. We must accept that our luck and destiny are written by God when He sent us on this earth and we are to bear whatever happens with us, but at the same time we are to learn a lesson from each event in our life and we shall have to make improvements so that next time such an event may not happen in our life.
This life is very short and we are to complete our education, trainaing and they we shall have to adjust ourselves at a work from where we could carry proper income with which we could be able to run our family administration. We are to have our marriage and then we shall have to manage for children. We are to face all these responsibilities and if we fail, all the people around us shall declare us failure and they shall condemn us and shall not help us. Therefore, we shall have to be self-dependant and we should not wait for help of others.
We are to complete our life tenure and therefore, we should also see that whatever difficulties we had been facing, those should not be before our children. They should be better placed and we must know that one generation shall be writing the luck and destiny of so many generations and we should not condemn our future generations to all the difficulties which are before us. We must live a life of our own and at ther same time we must establish a status of our family which could be in luck of our future generations.
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