Who is a bad guy? Many of us would ask. Its ironic to think enough of our young men would be excited to imagine this label attached to their social profile. A bad guy is a heart breaker who poses as a good caring man while he does not have good intentions for you at heart. These are the kind of dudes who will engage in relationships but with no emotions involved. They actually act like they care while in actual sense they wouldn"t give a damn if you cry the whole day when they don"t call.
What is so intimidating about bad guys? This guy calls you every day for the first week. They talk about anything without fear of being condemned. They will even flatter you though they don"t mean it if only it makes you happy. They will tell you what you want to hear even if it is a lie. You have the smartest brains among the women he has met so he will claim. All over sudden the man stops calling and diverts his attention to a more thrilling chase. You in turn panic and cling to him like you cannot do without him. When you are about to give up he comes back again with even more momentum and in a split of a second you are all together. He gives you only what you see in the movies but only for a short time before he goes for his usual trips. He is mysterious yes, but he gives you a moment of a lifetime and what a good guy can"t afford in ten years.
They know how to study each woman and treat her like she likes. In such a way that she would never guess she wasn"t the only one. After he has hit his target he has no time to soothe your heart. Its time to do away with you and move to the next project. You will just call one morning to seek sympathy after realizing you have flu. But the jerk will tell you "sorry, i wish i could come over to see you but my girlfriend is pregnant and she needs me here". That"s what we call a strong blow on the face. A good guy will drop the bombshell in an organized way. Which is important to reduce the heartache but a bad guy cares less about the impact of the shock on you.
I thought many women would go for a cool emotional type of a guy just to match their emotional nature but i am always proved wrong. Few women would want a man who cries with her when everything turns blue. Who would determine the right moment to stop crying? A strong man is every woman"s desire because he offers a good shoulder to lean on and is quick in finding solutions. Exactly, even if the solutions are wrong they are presented with confidence and so appear real. That"s how bad guys manage to sweep you over your feet and you don"t find the ground that easily.