Women and Cheating:
Men usually say that all women are the same. So not true, it"s just what"s in the back of their minds that has them thinking that all women are the same. But, not all women cheat on their partners. It"s just the one"s that really deserve to get cheated on. Now if men didn"t do silly things to make us look and feel bad, then we wouldn"t have to cheat on them. Just like they feel that they have probable cause to do what they do, then we feel the same way about the situation.
Most men drive women to cheat on them. And those reasons are:
-Lack of attention (not noticing us):
Remember it"s pretty simple with us, all you have to do is pay attention, and in due time, you will understand us.
-Lack of communication
-Laziness (no drive whatsoever) no one wants to be with a jobless man who has no hope for the future
-Not doing enough for us
-Neglect
-Too many lies and getting caught lying.
-Thinking with the head down below instead of the head on top.
-Not knowing when to draw the line between respect and disrespect.
Note: The same way a man wants respect, we deserve the same respect in return too.
Some women say: We have to cheat especially if the guys are going to continue doing what they"re doing.
Please: Women get tired of opening up their hearts to men and end up getting the same results everytime. Now some women cheat on their men, and some don"t and some of us usually play the playboy status where we have to act like men and do what men do and switch the roles on the guys because if you really think about it, if we started acting like men and switching roles like the singer Ciara says, then they would really hate us to a point where they would just swear off women all the way.
You ever notice a couple walking down the street and the woman is so bossy and you would say damn, this woman loves to wear the pants and he allows it.
In cases like this: You can"t even blame the woman because if you think about it. If she didn"t wear the pants or even try to hold her ground and stand on her own two feet, then the man would just walk all over her and making demands while he does his dirt. But in all actuality, she"s just demanding her respect the best way she knows how so she won"t get cheated on, so she has to stand her ground, if not, she has to do what she has to do and if by chance that she"s unhappy then she has no choice but to cheat on her man.
Most women that say the reasons why they have cheated on their men is because of suspicions and gut feelings because we women have to follow our women"s intuition which is always true and it never really lets us down. Don"t get me wrong now. I"m not saying that cheating is a good thing to do, but to tell you the truth, some men deserve it and need to look into why their women are cheating, and most of the time when we cheat, it"s already planned and to tell you the truth the way we do it is so sweet and the men just can"t understand it, but hey! It is, what it is.
Now a days, most of these powerful women who have it all together always seem to get a man who seems to end up being a cheater in the end and the women always seem to find out that the man has been doing dirt behind their backs, but they normally react differently to this situation. So what do they do? They normally get back at them by cheating out of spite. We all know that two wrongs don"t make a right, but in certain cases you can"t feel sorry for the man because they should know better than that. If I was a man, and I had a powerful woman, then I would just stand by her side, no matter what and make sure that I didn"t cheat on her because you never know who could be your soul mate, so never take advantage of what you have.
However, women should always take charge no matter what when it comes to their relationship because sometimes cheating is not a choice, it"s an option and trust me, there are options to choose from that ususlally tells us when we should cheat when in a relationship with a man.
Here is a simple example and a reason behind the cheating or a simple little thing that are grounds for cheating:
-If a woman is sick with the flu and the man doesn"t even call or check up on her and it"s just a ton of her friends that are checking up on her, then that means that he doesn"t deserve her and wouldn"t be by her side even if she"s dying, so yes, that is grounds for cheating.
In other words: The man shoud be there for you no matter what, and if he can"t see that he"s supposed to be there for you, then he"s in trouble and he deserves to get cheated on.
It"s like this: If a woman has a man and a man doesn"t do simple things like bring her juice or soup then he"s really not worth it and she can do bad by herself and he could never take care of her in any situation she"s in because if any of her friends can call and check up on her and the guy she"s with can"t, then that is definitely grounds for cheating. No ifs, ands, or butts about it and that is when cheating becomes a choice in the matter that the man doesn"t have any say so and then that"s when he has no options to choose from whatsoever! That also shows you that he will never go the distance with her.
Always remember this: If your man can"t take care of you when you"re sick, then he"ll never take care of you and things will never get better than this. That"s a fact!
When it comes to Women and Cheating: Women should realize that some men need a dose of their own medicine and deserve to get cheated on.